Lending

The Return of the Multigenerational Home and the Evolving Role of Lenders

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February 27, 2025
By
Mike Waterston

They say trends are cyclical, and here’s one that’s back in a big way: Multigenerational housing. A longtime norm that faded through the mid-20th century is rapidly returning. And it’s reshaping the American housing market.

This demographic shift presents a unique opportunity for mortgage professionals. By understanding the diverse needs and financial situations within multigenerational households, lenders can cultivate deeper customer relationships, expand their business reach, and foster long-term loyalty.

The numbers tell the story

Census data shows the number of people living in multigenerational family households quadrupled from 1971-2021, reaching 59.7 million in March 2021. That’s roughly 18% of the U.S. population.

This trend is even more sharply pronounced among younger Americans—the so-called “boomerang generation.” According to the Pew Research Center, a quarter of all adults ages 25 to 34 now live in a household with two or more adult generations—and RentCafe’s research estimates that 68% of Gen Z’ers over 18 still live with their parents. Even among millennials, 20% have returned home or never left.

What’s behind the rise in multi-gen housing?

This resurgence of multigenerational living isn’t simply a matter of “going back” to the past. It represents an adaptation to several converging factors:

  • Economic pressures: Skyrocketing housing costs, coupled with student loan debt and persistent inflation, have made independent living increasingly challenging, especially for young adults. Sharing expenses and pooling resources within a multigenerational household offers a much-needed financial buffer.
  • Caregiving needs: At both ends of the age spectrum, caregiving responsibilities are pushing families together. The high cost of childcare often compels new parents to seek support from relatives. Simultaneously, as the population ages, caring for elderly parents at home has become a common and often necessary arrangement.
  • Cultural shifts: While the nuclear family model has long dominated American culture, attitudes are changing. Many are recognizing the benefits of intergenerational support, connection, and shared experiences. Moreover, multigenerational living is more common and accepted in certain cultures, contributing to its overall rise as the demographics of the U.S. shift.
  • Life transitions: Beyond purely financial considerations, multigenerational living can provide a valuable support system during significant life transitions. Whether it’s recent graduates launching their careers, new parents adjusting to family life, or individuals navigating job losses or other challenges, living with family can offer stability and emotional support.

How lenders can serve the many faces of multigenerational housing

The rise of multigenerational housing presents both a challenge and an opportunity for lenders. The first task is to recognize that multi-gen housing is not a monolithic demographic but a wide range of scenarios, each with unique financial considerations:

  • Recent college graduates staying with parents: Faced with mounting student loan debt and a competitive housing market, many young adults are opting to live with their parents after graduation. This allows them to save for a down payment, improve their credit, and gain financial stability before venturing into homeownership.
  • New parents living with relatives: The high cost of childcare is a significant burden for many new parents. Living with relatives can provide much-needed support, both financially and practically. This arrangement often necessitates larger living spaces, leading to renovations, additions, or even the purchase of multi-family homes.
  • Middle-aged adults caring for aging parents: As the population ages, more families are choosing to care for their elderly parents at home. This can involve home modifications to accommodate aging in place and specialized financial planning to manage healthcare costs and long-term care needs.

Adapting engagement & offers

Lenders must tailor their communication to address the unique needs of different individuals within the broader multi-gen housing demographic. This could include creating targeted content, hosting educational workshops, or partnering with community organizations.

Moreover, the mortgage products and financing options behind this engagement need to be tailored to these individuals’ unique goals. This could include renovation loans for adapting homes to accommodate multiple generations, home equity solutions to leverage existing assets, and even reverse mortgages to help aging homeowners access funds. By embracing flexibility and creativity, lenders can cater to the unique circumstances of multigenerational families.

Building an enterprise-level strategy for multigenerational housing

The growing multigenerational housing market represents a significant opportunity that deserves more than ad hoc approaches. Lenders cannot leave this opportunity fully in the hands of individual loan officers—they need to establish an enterprise-level strategy that ensures everyone, from loan officers to underwriters to marketing teams, understands the nuances of multigenerational housing and is prepared to engage these borrowers with sensitivity and expertise.

  • Invest in training and development: Equip your team with the knowledge and skills to effectively engage with multigenerational borrowers. This includes training on different loan products, financial planning strategies, and culturally sensitive communication.
  • Build a network of partners: Connect with other professionals who serve this demographic, such as financial advisors, elder care specialists, and contractors specializing in home modifications. This creates a holistic support system for your borrowers and strengthens your position as a trusted advisor.
  • Embrace technology: Leverage technology to personalize the lending experience. This could involve online tools for financial planning, virtual consultations, or digital resources tailored to specific multigenerational scenarios.
  • Foster a customer-centric culture: Make sure your entire organization, from loan officers to underwriters, understands the importance of building relationships and providing exceptional service to multigenerational families.

By embracing these strategies, lenders can position themselves at the forefront of this evolving market, capturing a growing share and solidifying their role as essential partners in helping families achieve their homeownership dreams. More than ever, borrowers need trusted advisors who understand their unique circumstances and can offer personalized guidance. The future of lending lies in recognizing these evolving needs and adapting to meet them with flexibility, innovation, and a genuine commitment to customer service. This is a defining moment for the industry, and those who seize this opportunity will not only thrive in the years to come but also play a vital role in shaping the future of housing in America.

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That's the insight USA Mortgage discovered when they partnered with Total Expert to transform how their originators identify, nurture, and convert past customers into new opportunities. The result? ~$60 million in funded loan volume in just six months, plus another $175 million in pipeline.

But here's what's really interesting: the technology wasn't the bottleneck. It was the process.

The problem: leads disappearing in the middle

Walk into any mortgage lender, and you'll find the same story. Loan officers are smart, they work hard, and they have plenty of leads coming in from multiple sources: referral partners, purchased leads from Zillow and LendingTree, and their own past customers.

But somewhere between the lead arrival and the follow-up, opportunities vanish.

USA Mortgage's VP of Sales and Customer Experience, Alec Picinich, described the friction this way:

"We had strong loan officers and plenty of lead activity, but the handoff was the issue. There was no uniform system in place. Most producers had their own system—reminder-based inbox notifications, spreadsheets, personal call lists. The lack of centralization was the biggest issue. The gap was in the middle, where the opportunities kind of just disappeared."

All those disconnected systems led to inconsistent follow-up and limited visibility into what was working and what wasn't. And with no way to nurture borrowers who weren't quite ready today but might be ready next month, those opportunities got buried deeper and deeper under waves of new leads.

The result was predictable: lost deals, confused teams, and a corporate support function with limited ways to help scale best practices across the organization.

The Solution: one source of truth

Rather than layering on more tools, USA Mortgage decided to consolidate. They brought all their leads from referral partners, purchased sources, and past customers into a single unified platform: Total Expert's Lead Management.

But consolidation was just the first step toward preventing leads from slipping through the cracks. The real shift came when they connected three capabilities:

1. Customer IQ: identifying opportunities in your existing database

Most loan officers don't excel at proactively reaching out to past customers. They're focused on today's purchase business, and without a system to surface opportunities, past borrowers fade into the background.

Customer IQ changes that. It's a contextual data system that continuously monitors and enriches every contact record in your database. When a borrower experiences a life or market event that creates an opportunity such as a rate drop (refinance window), a credit inquiry from another lender, a debt threshold crossed, a marriage or divorce, Customer IQ spots it and brings it to your team’s attention.

At USA Mortgage, this meant monitoring 190,000 customers and turning insights into action. In just six months (January–June 2024), those customers generated:

  • ~$60 million in funded volume
  • $175 million in application pipeline (with expected 80% funding conversion)

That's an opportunity that was already sitting there; it just needed to be seen.

2. Lead Management: centralized workflow and accountability

With Customer IQ surfacing opportunities, USA Mortgage needed a system where loan officers could manage those leads the same way they manage purchased or referral partner leads.

Lead Management provided:

  • A single source of truth for all leads (past customers, referral partners, purchased leads)
  • Clear visibility into lead stage and action items
  • Consistent routing based on originator or branch
  • Automated nurture campaigns for borrowers who weren't ready yet
  • Compliance controls to ensure messaging is consistent and compliant

Suddenly, loan officers could answer three simple questions about every opportunity: Who is the lead? What do they need? Why is the opportunity present right now?

That context—that "why"—changes everything. It's the difference between a cold check-in call and a conversation-ready outreach.

3. AI Sales Assistant: outreach on demand & at scale

Even with a unified system and better intelligence, loan officers still can't personally call every past customer when the market shifts. If rates drop and 1,000 borrowers become in-the-money for a refi, even the most efficient lending teams can't operationalize that in the two or three weeks when the market window is open.

Enter AI Sales Assistant, a human-like voice AI that’s powered by Customer IQ’s contextual data and trained on real-world mortgage conversations so it can answer questions, navigate borrower objections, and qualify opportunities.

AI Sales Assistant acts as an extension of lending teams by:

  • Initiating outreach to all qualified past customers (potentially in a single day)
  • Personalizing the conversation based on the borrower's situation, previous transaction, and estimated savings
  • Handling objections gracefully (Alec shared the story of a borrower who said "I'm feeling sick, not a good time.” AI Sales Assistant responded with empathy and offered to schedule with the loan officer later, which the borrower accepted)
  • Offering warm transfers to the loan officer for borrowers ready to talk
  • Scheduling meetings on the originator's calendar for qualified leads

This allows loan officers to focus their time on high-quality conversations with informed borrowers, not figuring out who to call or manually working through a database.

Real-world execution

One of USA Mortgage's senior regional VPs shared a success story that perfectly captures the shift:

An experienced loan officer received a credit inquiry alert for a past customer; someone she hadn't worked with in years. The borrower had lost the loan officer’s contact information. But thanks to the alert surfaced by Customer IQ, the loan officer reached out with context and relevance.

The result? A $400K pipeline boost with minimal effort from the loan officer.

This doesn't happen with a generic check-in call. It happens when the loan officer knows why they're calling and has the data to back it up so the outreach feels timely instead of transactional.

The bigger picture: human + AI operating model

What USA Mortgage discovered is that the future isn't human or AI. It's human + AI.

The loan officer remains the relationship owner and builder, the decision-maker, the one who earns trust. But now, they're equipped with:

  • Intelligence about who to engage and why
  • Automation handling the high-volume, time-sensitive outreach
  • Consistency across the entire organization
  • Tools that make their job easier, not harder

Three takeaways

If you're struggling with lead follow-up, originators working in silos, or deals slipping out the back door, here's what to focus on:

1. Strong lead management isn't just about speed—it's about long-term nurturing
Speed matters for converting hot leads, but most conversions happen in the follow-up. Build a nurturing strategy that keeps borrowers engaged from first touch through the next opportunity to serve.

2. Your database is your biggest opportunity; operationalize it like a referral partner lead

If you're not connecting data intelligence with lead management, you're leaving deals on the table. Treat past-customer insights with the same urgency and structure as a purchased lead or referral partner referral.

3. Build an enterprise strategy with human + AI models

Replace ad-hoc originator habits (spreadsheets, personal reminders, disconnected systems) with a unified, AI-assisted operating model. Consistency across your sales force is what unlocks scale.

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The moving day problem nobody's solving for

For some lenders, closing day is the end of the journey. But for their customers, it’s the start of a new chapter. There's joy in owning the keys. But there's also stress.

According to research, nearly 80% of Americans rank moving as one of life's top stressors. As if scheduling showings, putting in offers, and finally signing the paperwork wasn’t stressful enough—now borrowers have to figure out utilities, internet options, security systems, and more. And if they’re moving to an unfamiliar area where they don't know the companies and providers, they'll be making dozens of decisions with incomplete information, juggling phone calls and online portals, and trying not to miss setup deadlines.

The average homeowner spends 5–6 hours just coordinating these utilities. That's time spent on friction, confusion, and often overpaying for services they didn't adequately research or compare.

Lenders might walk away with a closed loan and a satisfied borrower, but they miss a critical opportunity that has a short window: Post-loan engagement. This is your chance to turn a single transaction into a lifetime of loyalty.

Why this moment matters for lenders

For years, the mortgage industry has focused heavily on the pre-close experience. That's where the relationship is built, where trust is established, and where communication is constant. But once the papers are signed, that relationship often goes dormant. That's a missed opportunity on multiple levels:

Retention: Borrowers who feel supported through the entire process, not just the financing part, develop deeper loyalty. They're more likely to come back for a refinance, a HELOC, or a new purchase down the road.

Referrals: Borrowers who enjoyed a smooth experience talk about it. When you go above and beyond to help them through the moving process, they’re more likely to become advocates and refer you to friends, family, and colleagues.

Competitive advantage: In a crowded lending market, showing up in the moments that matter sets you apart. It shifts you from being a lender to being a trusted advisor. The borrower's perspective changes from "they financed my home" to "they helped me through a major milestone."

Lifetime value: Today's borrower is tomorrow's repeat customer. A first-time homebuyer who closes with you at age 32 may need a refinance at 41, a HELOC at 48, and a move-up purchase at 53. That's three separate mortgage opportunities where they’ll need professional help—your help if you nailed the post-close experience.

The problem: fragmented solutions, fragmented experiences

Some lenders have tried to solve this by offering hodgepodge perks—a moving company discount here, a home service coupon there. But those aren't solutions. They're band-aids.

Borrowers don't want more options to manage. They want fewer things to think about. They want centralized, reliable, expert guidance on something they don't know much about—and they want it to come from someone they already trust: their lender. That's where OneSource comes in.

What OneSource does

OneSource removes the friction from setting up home utilities by acting as a concierge between the borrower and providers. Instead of the homeowner calling around to figure out which company services their address, comparing plans, and coordinating multiple setup appointments, OneSource does it—all in one place.

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  • Comparing options and pricing in deregulated markets where choices exist
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  • Coordinating setup and activation so utilities are ready on or before move-in day
  • Saving borrowers 5–6 hours of coordination and often hundreds of dollars in optimized or exclusive pricing

For lenders, the value is even clearer: borrowers save time and money, feel supported, and associate that positive experience with the lender who connected them.

Over 1.1 million homeowners have used OneSource, and adoption rates among lender partners are consistently strong. Because it's not positioned as a "perk"—it's a genuine solution to a real problem that every homeowner faces.

How Total Expert and OneSource work together

Most lenders know they should be staying engaged with borrowers after closing. The challenge is execution: how do you make it seamless, scalable, and actually valuable?

The integration between Total Expert and OneSource answers that question.

Automated outreach at the right moment

Using Total Expert Journeys, lenders trigger a OneSource connection at the perfect time—typically 5–10 days before closing when the borrower is starting to think about logistics but hasn't yet begun the chaotic work of setting up utilities. The borrower receives an invitation to connect with OneSource, all contextualized within their communications with the lender.

One-click access

The borrower doesn't need to sign up for another platform or navigate a new website. They receive a direct link to their pre-populated OneSource profile, so the barriers to entry are near zero. They answer a few questions about their new address and service preferences, and OneSource takes it from there.

Transparent outcomes

As OneSource coordinates utilities and completes activations, lenders can see that engagement happening. When utilities are activated, when issues are resolved, when the borrower has saved money—that data stays visible in the context of borrower relationships, not in a siloed system.

Continuous engagement

The relationship doesn't end at utility setup. By bringing this service into Total Expert Journeys, lenders can sequence follow-up touchpoints that keep them connected as the borrower moves through the post-close window. A check-in on moving day. A referral prompt once utilities are stable. A follow-up six months later when the next major financial decision might be on the horizon.

It's frictionless for the borrower and scalable for the lender.

The lender advantage: from transaction to relationship

For lenders, the integration transforms closing from a transaction endpoint into a relationship milestone. Instead of handing off the borrower at the finish line, lenders stay present through one of the most stressful weeks of the entire home purchase process.

The outcome:

  • Higher engagement: Borrowers see their lender as a partner in their entire home transition, not just the financing part
  • Stronger loyalty: When you help reduce stress at a critical moment, that relationship becomes emotionally charged—the good kind
  • More referrals: Borrowers who had a smooth, end-to-end experience share that story. They refer lenders who "really took care of them"
  • Repeat business: Top-of-mind borrowers come back. For refinances. For HELOCs. For move-up purchases.
  • Competitive differentiation: Most lenders hand off at closing. You don't. That distinction registers with borrowers

The real competitive advantage: showing up when it matters

The lenders winning in today's market aren't the ones with the lowest rates or the most loan products. They're the ones building deeper, longer-lasting relationships with borrowers—and that starts with showing up in the moments that matter most.

Closing day is special. But it's not the end of the story. It's a milestone in a much longer relationship.

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Together, they transform how lenders think about the post-close window—from a time to forget about the borrower and move to the next deal, into an opportunity to build the kind of loyalty that keeps customers for life.

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